Healthy Relationship Quizzes
Quiz 1
- Can you say what you like or admire about your partner?
- Is your partner glad that you have other friends?
- Is your partner happy about your accomplishments and ambitions?
- Does your partner ask for and respect your opinions?
- Does she/he really listen to you?
- Can she/he talk about her/his feelings?
- Does your partner have a good relationship with her/his family?
- Does she/he have good friends?
- Does she/he have interests besides you?
- Does she/he take responsibility for her/his actions and not blame others for her/his failures?
- Does your partner respect your right to make decisions that affect your own life?
- Are you and your partner friends? Best friends?
Quiz 2
- When your partner gets angry does she/he break or throw things?
- Does your partner lose her/his temper easily?
- Is your partner jealous of your friends and family?
- Does your partner expect to be told where you have been when you are not with her/him?
- Does your partner think you are cheating on her/him if you talk or dance with someone else?
- Does your partner drink or take drugs almost every day or go on binges?
- Does your partner ridicule, make fun of you or put you down?
- Does your partner think there are some situations in which it is okay for a man to hit a woman or vice versa?
- Do you like yourself less than usual when you have been with your partner?
- Do you ever find yourself afraid of your partner?
Relationships are complicated, loving, painful, rewarding, healthy,
unhealthy, etc. Different people have different beliefs and values,
regarding what make a "good" relationship. Healthy relationships
are those in which the rights of each individual are valued and respected.
They are relationships based on equality, rather than power and control.
In a healthy relationship, each partner has rights.
Reprinted with permission from the Iowa Coalition Against Violence.