Deciding to Parent
If you decide to parent, there are agencies in the community that offer many services to parents and their children. These services include: prenatal classes, parenting programs, housing assistance, financial and legal assistance, childcare and childcare subsidies, education and skill development.
Many second hand shops sell inexpensive adult and children's clothes and furniture. Accept offers from your family and friends to help you with clothes, furniture, childcare, and meals. Look for help and support from as many people as you can during your pregnancy and especially once the baby is born.
During pregnancy is the time to get information about feeding, diapers, and other baby needs. Keep in mind that babies really only need the most basic clothes and equipment. If there is love and attention, warmth, food, and dry diapers the baby will thrive.
It is hard to be a new mother or father no matter what your age, financial situation or relationship. A demanding baby can be really stressful. It is normal to feel overwhelmed. Find ways to get a break from a fussy baby by asking family or friends for help. Try to make some time for yourself.
Parent Help Line (1-800-603-9100 or www.parentsinfo.sympatico.ca) is a free 24-hour telephone and Internet service that gives parents a place to turn to for any parenting concerns.